Being a parent is a challenging role even when you have a two-parent household. Most women don’t plan on being a single mom, so dealing with the challenges of parenthood can come with the added struggle of being unprepared. It can be easy to feel overwhelmed, but remember that you don’t have to do this alone. Seeking out help does not mean that you have failed as a parent.
Your community likely has several non-profit agencies that can help you with finding a place to live and helping to pay your bills. Governmental agencies such as the Department of Human Services and the Department of Social Services are available to assist families that are in need. You will need to meet with a caseworker so that they can get the process started. They can determine how much and what kind of aid you will require.
There are also federally funded programs that can offer you financial assistance. Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) is a program that can provide monetary assistance and food stamps for a short period of time. Women Infants and Children (WIC) is a federal program that is designed to provide food to women that are pregnant or breastfeeding. It also covers children up to the age of five.
There are also grants available for single mothers that are trying to go back to school in order to support their families. The Live Your Dream Award and the Sunshine Lady Foundation are just two of the grants that are available.
Churches often have shelters for women who are homeless or who are struggling to make ends meet. Other religious programs may help a single mother to pay for rent, bills, provide clothing, and food. The Salvation Army and Catholic Charities are two such organizations that can provide assistance to families in need. They can also help you to find a job if you don’t already have one. Check with your local church to see if they have a program that can provide you with assistance.
Additionally, there are groups like A Guardian Angel who specifically target single women who are pregnant. They provide resources to help with pregnancy, planning for the future, or adoption. It’s important to use resources like this to connect with other people who have similar experiences.
Having a baby is a huge responsibility. That baby is going to change your life. You may not be ready for all of the added burdens that this will bring. If you don’t feel like you are ready to be a mother, consider finding an adoption agency. They can assist you in finding a good home for your baby.
If you would still like to be involved with your baby’s life, consider having an open adoption arrangement with the new parents. Adoption is a good way to give your baby all of the opportunities that you are not able to provide for them. Adoption can also allow you to pursue educational opportunities that may not have been available or would have been very difficult if you were to keep the baby.
There is no right way to be a single mom. You just need to make the best decisions that you can for the future of you and your baby. You don’t have to do it all by yourself.